Hi Haley,
Thanks for sharing.
There are many days that I have a glass of red wine. Alcohol is metabolized first and can temporarily interrupt ketosis, but this is not a cocktail with a lot of sugar. There is nothing at all wrong with celebrating life and a ketogenic diet is not a punishment.
With just a bit of back cocktail napkin calculations, it looks like you are eating about 30 g/day carbs and 80 g/day of protein. If that is total carbs, then that is not bad, but the protein might be a bit high. There are a wide range of recommended numbers for protein, but when I was prescribed a ketogenic diet by my doctor it was recommended that I eat a moderate amount of protein at 0.8 g/kgram of lean body mass. My target for protein is 50 g/day and I am 6’ 1.5" tall. I am rather insulin insensitive and if I eat 80 g/day of protein then my weight loss grinds to a halt. How each person’s body respond to different amounts of macro nutrients is quite variable, the processes are the same, but different people have different sensitivities and intolerance.
As you consume food, your body responds by releasing insulin, with some foods resulting in a much larger response. At the top of the list are various carbohydrates and sugars, then proteins, with fats being at the bottom of the list. When insulin is elevated, then your stored fats are locked away in cells and it is hard to use fat for fuel. When insulin is low, then that fat is mobilized. If you are eating a lot of snacks between meals, or especially late a night, what happens is that your insulin level does not have as much of a chance to be reduced, or for only a shorter amount of time each day.
So … a couple things you could try …
No more snacks at all.
Eat less protein which can have a surprising strong insulin response.
I love cheese, but hard cheeses tend to have less carbs then soft cheeses.
Eat less total calories. If you are in ketosis, your body will happily used stored fat for fuel instead of just exogenous fats.
Look at the macro grams you are eating and not just the percentages.
If this does not get things moving again, then you can pull out the Swiss army knife of weight loss, fasting. Start with intermittent fasting (eating in a reduced time window during the day) or even use extended fasting where you don’t eat anything for a day. This is amazingly easy to do if you are fully fat adapted and a good resource is Dr. Jason Fung who has both books and videos.
I hope at least some of this helps. At least, I hope it gives you some ideas to test to see if they will work for you.
Warmest Regards,
Richard