I see a lot of newbies struggle to get under 20 g carbs.
I was one of these people. But month by month it gets easier. To the point that it’s not hard at ALL (unless you go on a baking spree… under which you want it to be “hard” to keep it under 20 so you don’t go nuts)
Our lifetime of carb eating teaches us to eat in a way that includes a lot of carbs. This meant at the beginning I was using things like spaghetti squash, lots of onion, etc. that are good “Low carb” choices, but hard to navigate with keto.
Over time you just find yourself being happy with less and less of these. I still use onion etc, I just use so much less! A tablespoon chopped onion in a recipe vs the half I’d have used before… things like that just become second nature.
So to all of you totally baffled how to make this work, I just wanna say, keep working at it and soon it will be easy peasy. (no you can’t have peas.)