Hi Rob
Sleep - this has been a struggle for a few years, but am working on it
. I usually manage between 6 to 7 1/2 if lucky, but not much deep sleep or regular rhythm of deep/light and rem. I have a meditation app on the alexa to help me unwind and practice switching blue lights off at least 30 mins before trying to sleep.
Stress - this is a biggy and probably the cause of the above, job - up until 18 months ago was under excessive pressure at work due to a bullying boss. On top of this had worries with Husbands health (skin cancer), Dads Health and youngest daughter stress. In addition to those to make things worse I had legal/financial worries, which I felt unable to tell anyone about, and had been ongoing for 3 years previously. So past stress, a definite yes. However work, although in the same job, and having same day to day work pressures, is better. I have a new boss who is supportive. Close family worries are over with, and my legal/financial worries sorted (went to court and won!!!). I know the burden has taken a toll on my health, which resulted with me having a breakdown and was on SSRI’s for a while.
Caffeine - after a collapse in February, I only drink caffeine in the morning. A cup first thing, then now switch to water. In the evening if I fancy one, then its caffeinated
Alcohol - this one used to be my guilty pleasure. Most evenings I would have a glass, sometimes two. Since my health scare earlier this year, I only have alcohol on Friday/Saturday evenings, and never more than two as it gives me the worst headache the morning after if I do.
Exercise - this one I can never be accused of over doing ;). I may run it through my mind occasionally but thats as far as it gets. Having said that I do go walking with a friend on a lunchtime for 40 mins ( stretch the legs, fresh air, and a chance to sound out any frustrations). I also go to yoga weekly (90 mins). All helps to keep my stress levels lower.
Many thanks