Okay… since you want to keep counting stuff can we compromise and have you count carbs and protien? Ignore calories and fat. Your protien goal should be 1-1.5 grams per KILO (not pound) of lean body mass (think high school weight). Even at that, it’s a range and if you’re going to err, go over, not under.
The ONLY fat goal should be satiety, and calories don’t tell you anything, unless you’re living in a chamber that can tell you exactly what you’re burning from moment to moment.