It’s taken time to listen and understand my body… plus I was also starting from a weak point. For years I was either able to consume what I wanted and able to carry a few extra pounds, I was always affectionately known as the “Big Man” through sports from before Uni. However since my 40s it was less and less based on physical prowess!
I definitely think the click occurs post fat adaptation… everything becomes easier. It’s often after the weight loss plateau that sees many turn away from keto as it doesn’t seem to work etc
Re first 6 weeks: My first 4-6 weeks were about being very disciplined, in fact I got stricter on tracking my macros. As I’m a data guy, I was taking various measurements (weight, blood glucose, BF, waist etc) on a daily basis. Many discourage this… but I wanted to track my progress to a fine degree. I was intrigued to see the progress etc
Re macros: as I mentioned I became more focused on understanding my food related to my macros rather than values. I adopted the view that the ketogains values were targets, keeping carbs sub 20g, aiming for protein partly due to my cardio efforts and for my love of BBQ. Hitting my fat wasn’t a strict target, if I was under but full, I didn’t worry. That was a key thing, to eat when hungry rather than driven by the targets, so if I under consumed, it wasn’t an issue. I trusted my body to tell me to eat etc
Now I’m experimenting with feasting / fasting. So loading up on fats or proteins, then assessing the impact. I try to do 72hr fast every 10 days or so. Also seeing the impact of increasing carbs to 30 or 45g
I try to have diet variety as it’s about taste, texture for me, I definitely eat less than I did, as I don’t over prepare or order. It was weird struggling with my previous portions after a few weeks! Plus I think I was fortunate to not be a carb addict, my household still has the same goods there as I’m the only Keto’er, but I can even prepare foods that I cannot consume (and that’s got easier over time). One suggestion if you have a trigger food like nuts is to weigh a portion and close the container, don’t make the mistake of having the bag of nuts and just dipping in. I love salted macadamias, and could eat those 100g bags, but I’d weigh 30g in a dish and enjoy every salty bite. Knowing that once the 30g is gone, then that’s it, so I instinctively rationed them
Re: play it straight. It’s such a personal journey, but I guess I was motivated to do this and I saw daily progress, that reinforced my focus. I’ve absorbed as much info as I could to understand how my body works with the food inputs. This combination kept me motivated and I did see weight plateaus, which encouraged me to try extended fasts, which as I was never a big breakfast fan and already eating one meal a day, it wasn’t a big leap. Many of my friends couldn’t envisage not eating… I simple said, have you tried? If you tell yourself you cannot do it… then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy imho!
Re: keto treats. I went cold turkey and tried to minimize those as I planned to reintroduce them. Now I was a major dark chocolate fan, so that was tough, but it was only going to be few weeks. So I just told myself the sacrifice was worth it… now I do mug cakes, dark Choc mousse or bars as a treat. Not a daily treat, but probably 2-3 times per week max
My recently recommendation to you is to stick with it because I feel better than ever… my original 94kg / 207lb target by early Nov is close (around 3kg / 6lb). So I’m thinking of going to 90kg / sub 200lb as I believe what I’m doing is right and that might take my BF to mid teens. If I was told that in June 2018, I wouldn’t believe it!
But my journey hasn’t been a constant decline, it’s been bumpy, so don’t be too hard on yourself if it appears to not be working, not all progress in measured in lbs for example my waist has dropped from 44" to 36", I’m having to add notches to my belts!
One final thing is that you might stumble, there might be a work or family event where you go back to the old ways. All you do is pick it back up, I know when I’ve overconsumed carbs, I can feel the difference, so that encourages me to be stronger when tempted!
Hopefully this helps you progress… one final thought it’s the journey not the destination that will change your life.