Like I said, I feel like people worry too much about it. That’s not the same thing as saying there’s nothing there.
But you could go through this forum right now and find a number of posts in the last few days where people are worried they’re not eating enough. They feel good, they’re not hungry, they just don’t want to eat.
I think that’s because people think the metabolism is a lot more fragile than it (usually) is. You can look at the Biggest Loser stuff but you need to keep in mind that’s a circumstance very few people are likely to replicate.
I don’t know about obese people eating less and exercising more - to the best of my knowledge, that’s based on surveys asking people, and no metabolic ward study (which are not perfect either) has ever replicated it.
There’s a pretty substantial shame element involved with being overweight in our society, so it’s at least possible that people are, at least sometimes, subconsciously fudging the numbers.
If your goal is to lose weight, and you’re losing weight, not hungry and feel good, then I think there’s no good reason to worry about metabolic slowdown. But people do.