@farmgirl, I am so glad you replied to this today. As I approach the Easter Brunch coming up on Sunday, it’s a good reminder that no, I will not eat just one jellybean. Zero is better for people like me!
It is good to know I am not alone in my addiction. What you describe is definitely me. It was encouraging to hear Megan Ramos say that this will improve with time. I’m banking on that.
Someone wise differentiated lapse from relapse. A lapse is just a blip on the screen. Maybe it was an oops from breading on a chicken wing, or too many nuts. That does not cause a big issue with me. But candy/cookies/sweets usually cause a relapse rather than a lapse. Different!
and give encouragement. I prefer Monk Fruit sweetner too. I order it from lakanto, & I make everything I want from it. I made rockin macaroons for Easter, and my family didn’t even know they were keto. Remember, a small squeeze of lemon or a mint leaf on food feels very non-keto and can change flavors dramatically. Often I just ask myself this… if I wasn’t on keto, but refused to eat fast or processed food, what would I want that I can’t have? The answer suprises me, because whatever I want I can make some keto version of it, or incorporate a tiny bit of it into my micros for the day, or make a keto version of it. I guess what I am saying is that keto for me is about being able to have whatever I want to eat, & making smart versions of food, but keeping the balance so I stay in ketosis. You can do it!!! 
