I have the most annoying co-workers. Today was a co-worker’s birthday and we all huddled up to sing happy birthday and have cake. I sang the song and stuck around to listen to her birthday plans. One of my co-workers asks, “Are you having cake today?” I told her absolutely not! She said something about me being skinny now. I told her I am far from that, and have about 50 more to go.
I returned to my seat, shortly after a different co-worker came to my desk and asked, “Now, how many more pounds are you trying to lose?” I told her 50. She yells, “50???” with a screwed up face. i said. “Yes, 50!” She goes, “Wow, 50 more pounds and you will disappear.” (Mind you, this woman is almost 6 feet tall and cannot weigh more than 125. She is a very thin health nut who works out like her life depends on it and eats “healthy”)
My supervisor overheard our conversation and decides to jump in stating, “You probably won’t lose 50 more pounds, you’re looking at the scale; go by your measurements.” I let her know I look at both, the number is more of a ideal goal, but I am definitely more interested in how I feel and will look when all is said and done. Eventually, they changed the subject.
They have no boundaries! We. Are. Not. Friends! I do my best to avoid the woman who asked me how much more I wanted to lose because she is SOOO nosey! She isn’t asking out of concern but to be NOSEY and talk about me later on when I am not here.
I weigh 222 pounds and am 5’6, I have plenty more visible fat on me. One could say I could stand to lose more than 50. I have always carried my weight pretty well I assume. Why do people think it’s okay to hand out their opinions? If I wanted to discuss the topic, I would have asked her what she thought, don’t ya think?
I suppose I could look at this whole situation as an NSV being that several of my co-workers called me “skinny” today. Problem is I fail to see what they see.
I interviewed Wednesday for a much better job and I am seriously hoping I get the job. It has great benefits, pay and the best part of all? I can get away from the nosiest crew I have ever had the displeasure of working with in my life!
Rant over… (exhale)