I think I can talk to this… for 50 years I ate what I was supposed to eat (according to the medical establishment), and I got fatter and fatter. About 10 times during my life I would knuckle down, get some motivation and eat less and move more. And I lost weight every single time… I was brilliant at losing weight, what I did worked every time…. Until it didn’t.
Eventually, hunger won, laziness won, carb craving won, addiction won, and the rebound was always great fun (I have eaten a lot of utterly fantastic meals in my life!!), and always ended up with me being bigger and heavier than when I started.
I consider myself strong-willed. And I think in this conventional wisdom driven paradigm that is a very bad thing…. I could battle my hunger and my cravings and my addictions for longer, but it meant more harm to both my body and my mental state. I was starving, and not surprisingly, my body found a way to ensure I didn’t starve.
Then I found keto and fasting, and that worked well… until it didn’t. And now there’s carnivore, and it is working…. And as yet (nearly 3 years on) there is no “until it didn’t”…. Yet. I am always very cautious with this… I have as yet got no proof that this is going to stick forever… BUT, this is lasting longer than any other diet, and my resolve is not getting weaker (as it always did before), my resolve is getting stronger, and stronger and stronger…. Not through white-knuckling, but actually the reverse: the ease and naturalness of this style of eating…. Why, oh why would I ever want to go back to the old way, the conventional way? Not in a million years, mate! Not gonna happen. I am enjoying my new body and my new way of life way too much.
So I don’t blame big people when I see them, because I was one 10 years ago, and I really wanted to be different, and I tried and tried and failed and failed… because the advice I was following was crap. I am now doing the exact opposite, and BINGO! So I know who’s at fault here, and it ain’t the big people.