If I wasn’t totally depressed (or whatever I can do instead) or actively working to make the 3 months becoming 30 years, I probably would drink way more than I have drunk in my whole life… Of course, my drinking past is drastically different.
No way I would ate much carbs as it just makes everything worse and I like to feel good, not like I could feel good with imminent death when I didn’t live yet (it’s different if I am pleased enough and ready to go)… But that’s our different reason not to eat (or eat) carbs. I eat whatever I fancy even with plans to live 80 more years. I just make sure I fancy the right things most of the time, it’s not hard, I love my carni food best anyway. Except sometimes fruits, they are just so awesome but I eat them in moderation as I am a hedonist.
I agree, alcohol is factually a toxin and drinking it daily isn’t a good idea. Except maybe in super tiny amounts in certain circumstances, lots of people had that lifestyle without resulting in alcoholism (I know some people consider regular drinking that but I strongly disagree). I am a Hungarian, we are somewhere on top regarding alcohol consumption and drinking every morning always was a huge common thing here. I don’t even understand in fanfics when they talk about drinking early (like 2pm so not even at 5-8am as it was the thing here. surely still is but I don’t know details) as it was something extreme and bad… We always had huge selections of shot sized little bottles filled with cheap booze everywhere, people with various backgrounds depended on it daily.
But yeah, alcoholism is big here and it probably affected what I consider “normal”. Even if my family members almost never drank. Why would we drink on birthdays? That’s so often and what if I don’t fancy alcohol on that day (as it’s normal)? So we did it differently. Had a little spiced wine at Christmas and stuff though. Birthdays never were big deals. And name days even less so but I imagine tons of Hungarians drink like crazy even then. Good excuse, after all, not like Hungarians would need it if starting of a workday is good enough… I heard (I am very asocial so don’t really know people) alcohol pushing is big too so not drinking socially is tough. If one doesn’t have my attitude, at least. I never yield when I was pushed about what I put into my body, see my successful continued vegetarianism at my relatives, they didn’t get it and never accepted but that wasn’t MY problem, was it?
I hate when people too aggressively push food or drink on someone else (or in any way if they kind of know the other one should avoid the item. that maddens me). But both are big things here in the name of hospitality or whatever.
Keto and alcohol, I can’t say much about it, hence I was silent until now. My already tiny alcohol consumption drastically dropped after I went keto. But I never was particularly attached to alcohol, I just refuse to give up the freedom of drinking some (even if there is zero effect, sadly. I can’t drink enough for that. it means I drink super tiny amounts and can’t change it without force, it comes naturally) and certain kinds are super flavorful too. (I need to buy a bottle of Glenlivet again… Just once, after a decade… Just smelling it would make half of my evening Our first bottle lasted for 2 years I think… This one probably will last WAY longer, my SO drinks even less than me.)
I drink for taste as I can’t drink enough for effect (sometimes I get lucky but very rarely) and even with food, this often doesn’t require much. But unlike with food, my body just says “stop” very quickly. I am very thankful my relationship with alcohol is way healthier than with food. Food is a big enough problem alone.
My opinion/attitude about drinking is the same as consuming other harmful but somewhat nice, tempting (and social, culture and so many things are involved) substances. Amount and frequency matter. And if the body says no, don’t use it. Or if it already in bad shape and can’t handle it without sweating… Mine is pretty healthy and surely can handle my few milliliters of alcohol per months (and the few deciliters of wine in December. and the even less beer per year). A way higher amount probably would be still okay, I just don’t want it. If I wanted some “normal” amount of alcohol quite regularly (even if it wasn’t a NEED, that sounds bad), I would want to change. It IS a toxin, we should be careful with it. And while I understand a more alcoholic (still not crazy) day now and then for fun or something, regularly? No. It sounds bad even mentally…
And if it’s rare, I wouldn’t care so much, I enjoy myself and my normal good days will keep me fine