Sending good vibes and prayers for your Dad! But luckily treatment etc is good on this situation for the majority.
and your HWC is ok
It is fine 
I did this with my kid but I knew I was luckier cause I started teaching her ‘low carb’ early on, like age 6 and now she is 15 and she is holding her weight very steady, not gaining and is in good shape but I had those same concerns for sure. I never wanted her to be a ‘insanity dieter and failure’ like I went thru and boy I went thru diets like crazy and it ruined me truly, and I did all that in older years and I sure didn’t want her going down that route.
What I did was just tell her that ‘carbs’ are the worst guys in the food group. Explains those are breads, candy of all kinds, chips, taters, anything fried etc. and told her to always just cut out an option when eating. And we all eat different in the house too like you LOL and I did the ‘healthy meals’ for her but also made it a little test of like, now you are getting spaghetti and meatballs and garlic bread, are ya eating 2 slices of bread or 1 and we finally got down to where she will not eat ANY bread with pasta…she knows that pasta is the carb and bread is the carb so she opted to change up her eating but ditching the bread along with pasta all the time now. I had her replace ‘all the time eating french fries’ with a meal to she now orders a veggie side to meals and at home if I say we are eating bbq chicken and I can make her french fries, she will say, nah, not this time, make me a big pile of brussel sprouts and green beans.
So basically I walked her into low carb choices and to ‘give and take’ on her choices. She ‘gets it’ ya know LOL Being 15 she has been in the same size jeans for about 4 years now and just holding her weight so to me she has figured out how to hold a stable weight at this point.
So that is just something I did with her. I didn’t wanna come at her too hard, cause when I tried saying NEVER eat carbs and sugar she thinks I am fanatical LOL so I had to baby step her into ‘what low carb’ eating was all about.
just throwing out some stuff and how I went about trying to get it across to her on what is bad out there…useless sugar like candy, cakes, soda is just non-nutritional and enjoyed sparingly and then she had to watch the food options of fries, fried food, and eating bread with that meal etc. and in the end, I watched how she changed her eating and I did ok thru it all. I feel like I gave her the ‘basics’ for taking it farther if she wants but gave her a ‘good low carb’ explanation base as a foundation.
I blabbed on, but yea, our kids need to know low carb. My kid will never go zc ever…she ain’t got it in her LOL so I knew that a basic low carb foundation had to be cemented into her and it was, and so far so good for her at this point.
You will do fine. Take it slower on why she is eating what she is eating ya know and why you need to watch the carb options in meals a bit and it gives them a sense of control and knowledge about their choices.
doing great on zc SB!
the teens! Brrrr! winter is coming at us for sure now. In NC we are in the AC one day and heat on the next HAHA Not sure just yet if we are gonna burn or freeze LOL
YES I so get that. Had many in my days working of those that don’t give a flying leap about putting any energy into the job and doing it correct and to completion. Oh boy I get what you are saying—more work for us! ugh. Feel like ya could just smack someone 