I really need to talk with people I suppose but it felt so, so nice to write even though we talk about food here… But at least it helped with my fast, it’s already 5:20pm and I only had some bites today. I start to get really hungry, it was so long ago…
I just don’t want to abandon this one, sorry. I did that with way too many comments lately.
I was talking about the unusualness of eating things separately. They are together to enjoy them together, they balance each other. My SO totally works like that. Protein, side dish, vegs, every bite must have all of them. He is very good at everything lasting up to the last, perfect bite. He can manage if I take a bite of something in the middle but not near the end. As I saw dishes all my life, it’s how people eat, eating different things at once.
I am a bit different as I never had the skill to balance 3 different things at the different times. I always ended up concentrating to 1-2 things only but I am moderately good at eating things alone (especially sour things). Even so, I need the balancing act and if I wouldn’t eat vegs with other things, I (almost) never would eat vegs (well I am close to that and it’s great, the less vegs I eat, the better, after all. vegs aren’t healthy to me but not a particularly unhealthy things either unless we consider the super starchy kind as vegs, I don’t, and/or the amount is big).
Eating salads and meat alone sounds fine to me but sometimes people on this forum talk about eating protein and fat separately
Okay, it’s pretty much impossible in my old world where I tried to eat as little as possible therefore all my protein sources were about 65% fat. Now it’s different (and I always had some fattier bites) but not very much. My extremely, unusually low-fat items (if it’s not very off eating) are about 45% fat, it sounds almost frighteningly and impossibly low (it did took 13+ years and lots of recipe making after high-carb to get there. oh and lots of training, 45% fat meats are fine for me now but quite lean). Well that IS very low for a diet if you ask me, I almost never went that low-fat on high-carb I am sure but still lower than my 65-70% fat leanish but enjoyable normal fare.
So now I can eat 50% fat first and 70% fat second or something. I can’t go much higher outside of fat fast (or when I don’t care) as I inevitably overeat fat then.
Carbs are the things I don’t even want to eat, it just happens whenever, as I don’t have much control on eating them, they can happen anywhere. I do try to stick to carni food for as long as I can during the day. The later I eat carbs, the better. Mostly for mental reasons, I really don’t care about orders or the number of my meals as long as my daily food gives me good macros and I don’t get annoyed (as many meals usually do, not convenient and dangerous).
Both my SO and I eat pretty well most of the time, our body handles the food just fine and changing things would be an unnecessary killjoy (and it’s not like I can change much anyway even if I try as hard as I can. well with my personality, it’s not much but still, I do train myself, with some success) so we keep our ways. Well he does, I keep trying to eat (and fast! though that is part of the way of eating…) the way I know I should. I am not super far, usually but still should do better.
It’s good your desires and how it’s right pointed into the same direction! Lucky! Though I am not very unlucky either, those are the people who try to eat in a supposedly healthy way and it’s super far from what they like. I always loved healthy food and I don’t think anyone ever told me that high-fat isn’t healthy (I don’t think it would have had any effect but still, it’s nice). Too high-fat (like 70% fat for me unless I change something. I would love to be active and muscular enough for that still moderate fat level. eating 65% left me missing fat so much for many years, it’s better now) IS unhealthy but that’s another matter, not what I am talking about.
I always preferred very simple (like meat and some vegs if I feel the need for some bites) or everything-at-once (I am sure there is a word for it in English too…) dishes. Those are convenient, I don’t need to use brainpower to make my bites. My rich scrambled eggs (“peasant’s breakfast” in a low-carb way) is like that. It has basically everything I normally eat and possibly a few carbier items too but only in tiny (perfect) amounts. So I can’t separate things at all. But most dishes are like that if they aren’t the protein+carby side dish+vegs type. Most of our dishes are complex. Hungarian dishes I mean as I very often eat meat and little else for my main dish. But I think it’s true for many countries… My dishes are already pretty much separated from carbs (they have them but little enough), and I try to keep them as low-fat as I can, it should be enough as I can’t do much more!
Fiber makes me hungry so it never could work for me… And it works way too much for some people who fills themselves with salads and basically starve saying they are full… Maybe it requires some serious ED but still, it can be dangerous… And I would think adding a lot of lean protein to the salad would make it WAY, way, way better. More satiation, useful nutrition (we need protein! okay, vegs give some useful things but macros are vital and many people especially dieting ones who are fine with eating a salad alone often don’t eat enough protein, no matter how strange that is to me), more joy if you ask me (if it’s not TOO lean to my liking but if it’s a salad, even some juicy chicken breast with some fat - as salads need fat anyway - would be welcomed and I never liked chicken breast though it’s nice if juicy - super easy to do, IDK why people complain about dry chicken breast, they just shouldn’t make it dry…? I cooked the stuff like 3 times in my whole life and it was always juicy - and tasty due to some flavorful marinade. it’s still not nearly as good as some pork, even the lean stuff but still, edible and even enjoyable in rare occassions and small amounts).
I don’t need any fiber (and it does absolutely nothing to my satiation… still better than the net carb part, that used to make me hungry, maybe not anymore, hard to tell, I don’t track on carby days anymore) but love the crunch
Iceberg lettuce was the only lettuce I was willing to eat (except for a single dish where normal lettuce was involved but I ate that like once per year), it has about no taste so it has no bad taste, just tasteless crunch like good peppers, okay in my books! But now it tastes like grass just like most green leaves (despite it being more white than them). Mostly lettuce salads with colors look nice though and I understand people want some juicy wet thing along with their fatty food. I rather grab a pickle though. Or roast some good pork that is pure perfection with a little salt on it. It just makes no sense to me to add anything else (in my own case. each to their own, obviously).
I only saw the mostly lettuce salads used in two ways: eating it with meat or something fried, so, with a “proper” dish - or as a full meal when the dieter was some female (probably even with a low energy need) who had no idea about how things worked (of course, it’s perfectly fine to use it as a meal if that works for someone. I always had some fruits for breakfast at 11am for a while at some point, I am not completely sure why but I do love fruits with a burning passion - I don’t think it will ever change. I don’t feel I need them anymore but they are lovely - and they were the only things I could stomach that early every day. and the amount was little and I most probably did my walks around that time so they couldn’t do much damage).
I don’t even know what that is… Maybe I will look it up a bit later.
I always considered vegs joy items. I ate them for joy. Now it’s a tad different as I consider them things I mostly should avoid and I don’t consider them for nutrition at all. It makes sense as my carni food gives me all what I need (and if something is missing, it’s possible, vegs surely won’t help with that) and the amount of my vegs is negligible. I suppose it’s very individual and I don’t mean our actual diet, we just have somewhat different needs. Like I apparently need zero fiber while others say they do need fiber to function well.
(I still don’t understand how I function with a quite low vitamin C intake even while eating much carbs - much for me - but I never had noticeable problems this far. Maybe I never did this combo for long enough for them to emerge. Many people eat in a clearly horrid way and they don’t get sick as quickly as I would think.)

Double hedonistic, I approve. I do love eating tasty and healthy food, both parts make life more enjoyable. It’s great we humans have options (well the luckier humans, not everyone, sadly).
About my fasting (my diet isn’t that great right now for reasons. I do have a ton of meat in my fridge now and a cute amount in my oven pan)…
Still stupid tiny bites (and coffee… still don’t have a tasty one but I couldn’t fill the void when I try to go without yet) during the day BUT…
Yesterday we visited the annual wild goose happening at a not too far pond so I only had dinner.
And today I managed to resist lunch (it was easy as 1. I had creamy coffees though they aren’t THAT effective normally 2. it’s Sunday so my SO ate early. I was still very well satiated at 1pm) and even my non-keto baked goods couldn’t tempt me for more than a taste (full crunch, yay!) as they got ready after my SO’s lunch. This day will be “dinner and a few bites elsewhere”. I should clean it up soon to be able to call it OMAD, not like that is my main (or any) reason for it… I never was very compatible with bites outside of normal meals though I do like tasting stuff and can’t resist food temptation so it happens now and then. Sometimes very often during some time period, I dislike that, feels wrong though mostly innocent. As long as I have one proper meal and just tiny bites outside, it’s better than my average day.
Today is Sunday with new things to taste but starting tomorrow, I will really try to wait until sunset. No Food Until Sunset (if I can’t do it, just some liquid, maybe? preferably NO coffee. or cocoa, the best replacement, actually better as it tastes good unlike my coffee. only cream or something saves that stuff). I should keep it up all December, to mitigate problems and anyway, it’s a great idea until late Spring or something. It’s not for anyone, obviously but I really should have my first (and usually ideally last) meal late. It’s very hard to avoid overeating if I eat as early as 3pm, even with my smaller meals (I feel they are smaller and they surely are, I just don’t track and no way I could ever guess. but with my small energy need and lots of extra body fat, eating too much in one meal is still super easy. except OMAD diminishes my mealsize too much unless I focus but I try to figure it out. and I suspect 2 dinners may work on some days).
Now I am full with food joy through writing so I ignore my (not too bad but serious) hunger for a while more.