Hi everyone. I’m new to the forum, not so new to keto. About a year and 1/2 ago I was diagnosed t2 diabetic and had a host of metabolic issues. I had been allowing so much life stress to take over (marriage issues, special needs child, move away from family and support network, etc.) and I let myself go. I always fed my family well, but I would end my day with fast food (or massive portions of whatever I made) and alcohol to numb out. When I was diagnosed, I was scared straight, so to speak. I went strict keto and incorporated IF and brought my bg down to perfect non diabetic levels. I lost 70 pounds, liver was healed, I had loads of energy, I was looking and feeling like myself again and I truly never felt deprived! I was a keto success story!
Within that time frame, my son was diagnosed with T1 diabetes…and I hope I don’t have to tell you all this…T2 it is NOT. It requires constant vigilance and he will always be insulin dependent. This fundamentally changed our family. Not only does he struggle with ASD and ADHD, but he now had a life-threatening chronic disease. All of my energy was/is funneled into this. Our family all adopted a low carb lifestyle (aside from sandwiches on regular bread my husband and daughter have kept in their lunches), which definitely helped. But somewhere along the way, I started losing myself again.
It started just with over eating my portions, particularly proteins. I was eating more, even when not hungry. Just nighttime stress eating. Then I moved from my occasional low carb adult drinks to carbier options, which then led to more eating, which lead to some fast food cheats, which led to weight gain…higher bg levels. Basically, I’m back where I started.
I feel so ashamed. I don’t want to see friends who were so, SO proud of me before. I don’t want to visit family who thought of me as inspiration. It’s just brutal knowing I was so close to my goal only to sabotage myself again.
I would love to go to counseling again, but unfortunately all our extra money is going to T1 care for our son. It’s taken everything we have. It simply isn’t an option.
If this sounds like a pity party, it really isn’t. I just need to get my story out there, get some accountability and get back on the horse. Keto IS my lifestyle, I know I can do this forever. I’ve seen what happens when I don’t and it’s not worth it. If you’ve read this far, bless you! haha I will try not to ramble as much going forward! Looking forward to hearing your stories and making new friends!