Welcome Shawn. It sounds like you are leaning towards Paleo eating when you “cheat”. That works for a lot of folks
I moved from ediets CICO, Zone, Paleo, Atkinsish, then full keto. In maintenance I am able to slightly up my carbs, @50 g per day. Sounds like you might just need a few more carbs to stay on track? The main thing is keep super sugary, super starchy items out of a healthy diet. If the weight is staying off, then you are probably doing it right, for you. Just do keep an eye on your weight, if it starts creeping up, take the carbs back down til you lose it again.
Good luck sorting it all out.