First of all I want to thank The Keto Dudes for starting and maintaining this forum. It’s a hugely valuable resource and safe gathering place for those of us who are embarking on a keto WOE/WOL and those who are further on the journey. Also thanks to those of you with the admin hats you help to keep the wheels well oiled and the train on the track.
I’ve been reading lots of threads on the forum over the last couple of weeks. Here are my reflections.
If you come to keto with weight loss in mind and you don’t suffer any ‘metabolic derangement’ you are some of the fortunate and will likely benefit enormously. You will most likely lose weight and keep it off as long as you maintain this WOE and don’t return to the SAD. You will also reap the long term benefits when you stay keto.
If we come to keto and have a degree of metabolic derangement (IR / diabetes / prediabetes to name the first but not least) we may need to ask ourselves about our priorities. Many (myself included) come to keto to lose weight as a first priority. This is an excellent priority as there will be many benefits to losing weight. However the scales can become an obsession. Those of us who come to keto from this path may need to move to a different priority; that of metabolic healing - reducing/reversing and preventing the worsening of our metabolic derangement would be a beneficial primary focus. Letting go of weight loss as the primary focus is hard. Without metabolic healing (starting to sound like the words to a song) we cannot progress as far along the road of weight loss as we would like. We will be constantly frustrated by one plateau after another. Why oh why am I not losing weight? (wringing hands) I’m doing everything right, I’m a perfect 20g of carbs every day! What am I doing wrong? How can I fix this? (Please don’t read a tone of condesension here - these are heart felt pleas and desires.) All of this has gone through my head and I’m sure it’s gone through many other people’s thoughts too. Being impatient is part of modern life, we want everything now. However, like saving a deposit for a house it takes time, sometimes a long time.
I am now in a place where I have to look at these priorities and ask how I support myself in shifting priorities. Put away the scales maybe and use other ways of measuring progress (waist measurements, fitness, BP? Actually not so easy thinking about putting the scales away - it almost feels harder than sticking to keto when standing in a bakery sorrounded by bread and cake! (Which by the way is an awesome benefit of keto - no carb cravings and a meh/I don’t care about those carb smells perspective.) I think a first step for me might be move to weighing once a week. If I get brave enough I might move to once a month! It seems crazy the scales are the new addiction, while I don’t weight myself multiple times a day, it feels like to spin it out between weighings I will be somehow missing out!
I was struck by something @Richard said about healing adipose and it taking 10 years in total hypothetically - we cannot put the cart before the horse. Unless we heal and reverse as much of our IR as we can we are not going to see the weight loss goals of our dreams. For some there may never be a return to pre IR weight. I may one day have to face that one and for now it is keto on so as to stay calm.
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