Yes, That is exactly what I am saying.
For context, I was trying to lose weight and had 80 lbs of it so lots of stored fat reserves. Your body is not going to use its internal fat when you are feeding it lots of fat! Dr Stephen Phinney talks about this in one of his youtube videos. Right at the beginning.
The following worked for me, its not the golden rule but this is what I had to do:
Stage 1 - Until fat adapted.
Eat, eat and eat. Keep my carbs below 20g net carbs a day but eat, as often and as regular as I wanted. Its the only way I would stick to the eating plan. Have lots of fat from MCT / Coconut / double cream / fat bombs / extra butter on everything etc. And lots of fatty meat.
I’d eat 2-3 large meals and still snack.
But there was NO weight loss, there was even some weight gain. My 1 month goal was not weight loss, it was to fat adapt and fix my damaged metabolism from previous calorie restricted eating. I wanted to make the adaptations process as painless as possible and the thought of hunger scared me.
Stage 2 - Once fat adaptation started. (About 6 weeks)
Now I could start focusing on my medium term goal, weight loss
Stopped all snacking.
Stopped eating breakfast, just lunch and dinner
Stopped adding all the fat, just got my fat from my body or from fatty meats.
Stopped all treats, all sweeteners, just 2 meals that would feed my body.
Only home cooked natural meals.
Weight everything
Used an online tool to log my food and work out my macros before I started eating
Restricted my carbs to TOTAL carbs, not Net carbs for a few weeks, this really helped the weight loss kick in, then I went back to NET carbs.
Started following IF (6 hrs eating window a day) and only ate 2 meals in that window. NO SNACKING.
The no snacking and IF happened naturally as well as my hunger dropped as my body started using its stored fat.
Stage 3 - Once fat adaption had really set in. (about 2.5 months)
Started alternate day fasts, only eating in a 6 hr window every other day or one meal a day.
Only once my weight started to get closer to goal have I added back in things like coconut oil, BPC etc.
And finally, 6 months after starting the diet and losing over 60lbs (I no longer weigh myself so guess its over) I have joined the gym and love exercise.
As I say, this is what worked for me but the key bit of information I got wrong at the beginning of the diet is I thought I had to hit my fat macro, I thought I had to eat over 200g of fat a day but after watching Dr Stephen Phinney I realised I had this wrong and cut back on all that fat. It made a HUGE difference.
Allan