I hear ya, Donna, loud and clear!!
I was a bread maker for a long time. I also made some pretty good pasta. And what I made was really good stuff. In a way, that kinda helps because cheats for either of them I know will not likely be as good as what I had made so the temptation isn’t quite the same. It’s that way for good doughnuts for me, too. When I did eat them, I was very fussy about them and I would turn my nose up at the typical grocery store pastry stuff anyway. That does make it easier to resist because I KNOW the typical cheat stuff really isn’t gonna taste that good. When I want it, I want the good stuff or nothing at all.
I am fortunate that I really like the things that are typical replacements. I like zucchini. I like cauliflower. Most vegetables, I do like. That helps. But I really do know that nothing will ever, ever, quite taste like potatoes or pasta or have that exact same texture either.
It has helped me at times to make things that are not labeled as a replacement but are just stand-alone dishes on their own. I might make zucchini “lasagna” but it’s not lasagna. It’s zucchini. And it’s really good. I might make cauliflower pancakes, and they might even be a little bit like potato cakes, but they’re not potato cakes. They’re fried cauliflower patties, and they’re tasty.
I have yet to make a cake or cookie type keto dessert that has the texture of a wheat flour cake or cookie. But some of them are pretty good. I will keep trying.
And then, on occasion, when I just gotta have the real thing, it’ll be small and I’ll savor it. And then it will be over, and I’ll be back to keto. If it’s a single event, I’ll even dispense with any hint of guilt. If it becomes a habit, then I gotta deal with it. But so far, so good. Even the holidays haven’t been so bad.
