I think the problem was actually some of the rest of us, not you. I am sorry this user felt attacked instead of supported, and I regret my part in that.
Getting into Ketosis
robintemplin
(Robin)
#22
We walk a thin line sometimes with newbies. We want to help without criticizing. That’s a toughie.
When I was new and doing some stuff that was self sabotaging, members pointed it out. I only took it personally, in that it personally helped me.
Regulars are used to the back and forth banter and know the personalities attached to the statements. I try to be sensitive to that, but often fail too.