Hi, Sharon and welcome!
I used carb manager for the first several months It allows you to search for the food in your meal. I always found something at least similar to what I was eating. And the selected foods give you the ability to input how much of it you ate.
Of course, if you’re eating processed food, the labels will usually tell you how many carbs per serving. Which can be something silly like 8 servings, even though it’s really 2 for most people. So watch those sneaky labels.
If at ll possible, stick to real food. Veggies, fruit, and nuts have more carbs than you might think, so pay attention those. Meat, cheese and eggs have little to none. Go full fat when possible… like heavy whipping cream in your coffee! Yum. You’ll find the balance that suits you best.
Patience is key. We don’t become overweight overnight and we won’t lose it overnight either.
I learned that (for me) weighing myself everyday led to mental distress.
If you’ve been strict keto for a week and the scales say you’ve gained a pound, it can really mess with your head. So maybe weight once a month.
Instead, take your measurements and pay attention to the fit of your clothes. Oh, and take a before photo! The day will come when you actually want to show people, believe it or not!
Feel free to ask questions here. You will get some conflicting answers on specific topics. What works for some, may not for others.
But most of us agree on the basics. Try to stay under/around 20g of carbs.
Do NOT try to limit your calories. That will sabotage your efforts. Many of us spent years yo-yo dieting and starving ourselves to lose weight. Your body remembers this and may not trust you yet. So eat up!
Steady as she goes.
You are in for so many benefits beyond weight loss.
You got this!