I can relate (except it’s not noon for me). And calories totally matter on carnivore too. My macros should be modest for financial reasons too but I hate to overeat anyway.
For me, it’s using little dairy (and added fat but I do that since years) what solves the problem. And eating as lean meat as I comfortably can. Eggs play a little role.
Not having many meals without a good reason is important for me too. My eating abilities replenish after some hours even if I don’t need or want more food. So I CAN eat a lot if I start eating. (There are so many poor souls out there who could use such an ability but I have this, not them.)
That’s a bit sad to my hedonist self. I never sacrifice the deliciousness of my coffees - but I am lucky to find it great when it has very little cream
My fav coffee is tasty even black! Still better with a little cream
But I love it with milk too. Sometimes prefer it. Right now I prefer cream, how lucky I run out of milk and opened a bag of cream with a near expiration date… I enjoy myself a bit before I try to almost quit coffee again.
It does matter to me. I need to lose fat. So maintenance isn’t good enough for me. And anyway, wasting precious resources? Sounds bad to me, I personally don’t want that.
Nice! Sadly, I can’t buy raw milk anymore. There was a dairy truck business but it ceased to function that way 
If the calories are high, of course. As people lose fat just fine eating sugar and fat together too… Of course it’s way more complex than calories, people are different, hormones play a role… But that’s it, it’s complex, we can’t say HCHF always causes fat gain (obviously not, there are people with this diet all their life and they don’t get fatter and fatter
) or that we can’t gain fat on carnivore. I do believe the latter is pretty hard and probably some serious fat force-feeding is required for most people for that to happen… And losing fat on HCHF is probably extra hard for most of us… But it’s still not white and black with very clearly drawn lines.
Do you have any idea why it seems (I can’t check it often…) that carbs don’t make me hungry so much anymore? They seem to satiate me somewhat…? Maybe it’s just my body having a problem with them and I feel good but feel full…? I don’t know but it’s interesting. I used to seriously overeat when I ate higher carb (I always was/am satiated on every diet, it’s basic for me as a hedonist who hates being hungry. carbs made it easy to get very satiated eventually but it required A TON of fat and of course, high protein. I can’t get satiated without much protein) but I can avoid it now. Something has changed… 
Not very important, I don’t plan to go back to eating higher-carbs, it just happens on some days and I notice things.
I like to buy lactose free whipping cream (we don’t have HWC here), it’s sweet, works way better for my desserts! I don’t need that extra sweetness in my coffees but it doesn’t hurt.