I think i need a meeting… overeaters anonomous. I am clinging tightly to my pants and grinding my teeth in anger and it is taking everything in me right now to not jump off Keto and burn that wagon to the ground.
I feel like crud muffins. I looked at myself in a full length mirror at costco which is the first time ive seen myself in a mirror in a long time. At home i only have your typical bathroom mirror. Well…it shocked me… how fluffy i have become. How sick i look and how sad i appear. This what not what i expected. Somehow my brain sees frumpy and fluffy instead of “she has some weight but still looks beautiful”.
It honestly didnt help that i had been walking around costco and superstore without having eaten since last night. I accidentally fasted all day. Didnt mean to. I thought i was going to be back home sooner to eat a lunch. It doesnt help that my daughter and husband are decirating gingerbread houses tonight and im in charge of making the icing… So you can imagine how much candy is in our house… lemme tell ya… diatreaties.
And then… oooohh… when your spouse does somthing that makes you feel like crap. They say somthing or do somthing that makes you feel less valueable. The one person you feel like should value you and lvoe you unconditionally and then BOOM… one word…one action and its just BIG enough to make you question your worth.
I know… you arent supposed to measure your worth by anyone else’s actions but its easier said than done. I think we naturally look for encouragement and acceptance from the ones we love and when an action says otherwise… it brings you down.
I honestly dont want to cheat on Keto. I know i wont feel happy if i do. I know i will feel ashamed but its hard this time of year. I feel like im missing out on the fun things like decorsting cookies and decorating gingerbread houses. Ugh.
God grant me the serenity
To accept the things i cant change
The courage to change the things i can
And the wisdom to not do somthing stupid(my own little addition to the prayer)