I understand what you are saying but it goes both ways for me in terms of what’s derogatory or not useful. I’m curious why you would believe in the first place that something is unhealthy for someone when that person has been through it already and it works for that person. Perhaps some words triggered something for you - such as pounding back water. I have no idea how this could be misconstrued. Hydrating is important. I’ve found it to be important for me. We could really go on but I think your use of words is such as warning flags is unnecessary and lacks inclusion or understanding of someone else’s understanding of keto. (Is it really so one sided on these forums? Admittedly I haven’t spent as much time here as many others.)
Either way, I can’t really expect everyone to be cognizant of their tone or being inclusive so like I’ve said, I appreciate your feedback but dislike your tone.