@Mare, makes total sense to me. Only you know how you feel and react to stuff, so it’s great you listen to that.
The reason I’m so adamant about only US being the one to really choose for ourselves: I fought being overweight and unhealthy ALL my life. Did all the things that the so-called experts told me to do. Endured YEARS of accusations about being non-compliant, or lazy, or fooling myself, or lying about what and how much I ate. Tried it all; eventually failed at it all.
Then in 2008, I said to heck with them all. I spent 4 solid months researching the low carb diet (the high fat part hadn’t yet become a thing). Bought and read half a dozen books; spent hours a day reading on the internet; listened to hundreds of hours of podcasts.
Bottomline: in spite a resistant and sabotaging husband, I gave up sugar and most starches. Taught myself how to cook all over again, the LCHF way. Have lost about 140 lbs, til hit a health wall that has stalled me. Am trying to get going again, hence investigating ZC.
All that jabbering to say: I totally support that YOU will know what it right for YOU about the goat cheese, or anything else. When, if, or never… you’ll know. 