Good morning everyone. I thought I would give an update.
I dislike saying that I have depression but I have it and it won’t go away any time soon. I do take meds for this. I was raped and got herpes that spiraled me into depression. Due to this depression, I gained a lot of weight (~30lbs) that I am trying to lose. I have always been fit, working out everyday while still enjoying food. I unintentionally did IF because I would be going over to my crush’s place and usually wouldn’t eat (so that I could look slim) and this actually helped me maintain my weight. How did this lead to keto? I heard from a friend and my nurse practitioner that keto helps you lose a lot of weight so I am trying that out now. I want to lose weight and gain my confidence back but also keep a diet that I can enjoy. The hardest part is probably eating out and baked goods. I continue to hit the gym everyday and lift weights and stick to my routine (washing my face, putting on lotion, etc) bc it helps with my depression. My anger management and anxiety have become worse due to my depression. I seem to get agitated more easily. I’m hoping to get all of the benefits of keto but also gain my confidence through weight loss and also better focus on life (school, work, etc).
I have been trying keto for over a month now (try-fail-try-fail…) and I’m still trying and trying NOT to fail. I need to remind myself of how I felt like crap when I wasn’t on keto and ate all of this junk food. I also need to remind myself that my goal date is May. Today is my third day of trying again and I’m feeling a bit angry/anxious because I ate late at night which makes me gain weight. I ended up eating late last night out of stress. I will go straight to my room next time and read a book or something. But yesterday was also my first day that I didn’t eat during my lunch break. I am trying this thing where I will eat pre and post work because it takes me about 6-8 hours to get hungry.
Here is what my day to day schedule looks like:
WEEKDAYS:
7AM-10PM: work - school - gym
WEEKENDS:
7AM - (maybe go to church if I feel like it - I’m not super religious at all) and hit the gym
take it easy for the rest of the day = study/read
On the weekdays, I pack 2 meals that should be sufficient for the day with no snacks. No snacks b/c I used to snack on nuts and cheese and realized that I will eat the whole bag of nuts and cheese even when I go home. So, I no longer eat nuts and cheese unless its shredded cheese on my scrambled eggs. I also pack 2 keto protein brownies for each meal. Yes, I know I shouldn’t be eating sweets but I’m not going to go cold turkey on it. Instead, I’m going to slowly wean off of it until I can stick to keto. So my plan is to bake a few batches of keto brownies and keep on eating 2 brownies per meal until I can stick to keto and then slowly wean off of it. Once I can stick to keto, I’ll shorten it to one keto brownie per meal until I feel like I don’t need it at all anymore. But I will still make keto baked goods because baked goods always come in at work and they are my weakness. Hopefully, I get to the point where I don’t even desire baked goods and I won’t even care.
My main goal is to stick to eating keto foods. I’m not counting anything besides carbs (roughly estimating but looking at nutrition labels). Trying to stay at or below 30g for the first few weeks or months until I get a hang of things. I’m still learning on which methods work best for me.
My breakfast today consisted of:
ground sausage salad with diced onions and Cholula. 2 keto brownies for dessert.
Next meal will be post work:
4 mini beef patties, 1 egg mashed with mayo and 2 keto brownies for dessert.
GOAL FOR TODAY: STICK TO THE FOOD I BROUGHT TODAY. NO OTHER FOOD.
It’s been a few hours since I’ve eaten my first meal and I’m still feeling pretty full and satisfied which is great! I tested it out yesterday and did have “hunger” (mind is hungry but body isn’t) pains but I pulled through and found out I didn’t get hungry until about 7 hours after my first meal. I’m trying to listen to my body more than my mind. I will focus on the mindset that food is for nutrition. It’s hard when I have I think an eating disorder and I think about food all the time and turn to food for stress/depression/boredom but I AM trying to get better.