Recently, I went out to dinner with my siblings. One of my sisters, turns to me and starts giving me suggestions on Keto-friendly options on the menu and all the vegetable options to replace the carbs on the menu. I bluntly told her thanks, but I have no problem choosing what I want to eat and I do not need her advice.
Yesterday, our office went out to one of my favorite restaurants for lunch. As soon as I pick up the menu, one of my friends starts giving me advice on the Keto-friendly options on the menu and how I can ask for vegetables to replace the mashed potatoes or french fries. I was more diplomatic in this case and graciously thanked him for his suggestions, ignored his suggestions, and then ordered what I wanted.
What’s wrong with people?
I have talked to both my friend and my sister about Keto in the past and they both have decided it is not for them. Fine, I have no problem with that. Where do they get the notion that they think it is proper to give me unsolicited advice on what I should order at a restaurant? Also, in both cases, after giving me advice on what I should eat they ordered very carby selections.
Of course, it was very patronizing, but also something else that I can’t think of the word right now. Here is what really bugged me. I have been doing this WOE for more than a year and researched it for 3-4 months before starting. In that time, I have listened to hundreds of podcasts, watched numerous YouTube videos, read thousands of forum posts, and read dozens of books on Keto, nutrition, and health, and I have a couple of carb-burners giving me advice on how to eat at a restaurant, Dumb!
Have any of you had a similar experience?