Hi Jason.
One can eat enough fat that it would not be calorie restriction. In practice, I think that fat is very satisfying, so there will be a very probably lessened intake, overall. Fat is dense, calorically, so certainly less volume, usually.
Normally, less meals per day will mean less overall calories, i.e. even if one eats more during the reduced number of meals, it won’t be so much more that the total calories increase or stay the same. So, in the end, I agree - skipping meals usually means calorie restriction. Yet that’s “restriction” compared to what it would have been with more meals. It’s not necessarily less calories than one’s basal metabolism, nor less than the number of calories where “starvation mode” will start.
On this matter I think it’s a strongly personal thing. Some people will do better fasting/feasting, some will do better with Intermittent Fasting/one “eating window” per day, for example.
For many years I’ve often eaten only one meal. Just coffee in the morning, no lunch and then “whatever” in the evening, even if that was fairly horrible over-indulgence. I don’t think that ever slowed my metabolism down. There are also health benefits to eating less times per day, in general, especially for those who are overweight and/or have problems with blood sugar/insulin resistance. Less prompting for the body to send out more insulin into the bloodstream, etc.
While “slowing the metabolism” with calorie restriction makes sense to me, I also think there will be individual variation there. This past April and May I had many days where the only thing I ate was a can of tuna, and perhaps a can of sardines. 300 to 400 calories, far from ideal “keto” ratios, i.e.roughly 2/3 of the calories were from protein, 1/3 from fat. At least it was low-carbohydrate. I didn’t feel deprived, lost a good amount of weight, didn’t feel sluggish, cold, or like my metabolism was slowing. Not recommending this - it’s just something that seemed to work okay for me and that did no apparent harm.