Been keto / low carb mostly for about 2.5 years. I was more strict in the beginning, not quite so concerned about some extra carbs now, more relaxed. Still do a lot of keto and occasionally a bit of pure carnivore but I’ve really relaxed quite a lot.
Got within about 7 pounds of my goal weight last summer (195). I do fluctuate a good bit, though, and really just have not been stressing over it. I find that I tend to lose in the summer and gain in the winter. Right now, I’m closer to 220 just coming out of winter and a quarantine. I don’t care. Summer time is more active with outdoor work and the weight comes back off. Winter time tends to have more cheats and less activity.
That might not suit others, I’m not too worried about it. It suits me just fine. I feel good. I’m active. I can do stuff like serious hiking that I couldn’t at 300 pounds. Life is good. And I’m really just not worried about it. I don’t look like a morbidly fat guy in the mirror anymore. And throwin’ around a set of weights seems to be showing some muscle shining through just a little sometimes. I’m not doing it for that, just to try to tone a bit, to keep strength.
Maybe when you have 200 pounds to lose and you get chest pains from answering the phone, maintaining strict keto is a big part of your life. When you get close to where you want to be and establish a range in what could be considered a normal weight range, it just becomes less of a concern and life gets busy in other areas. At least that’s the way it’s worked for me. Some might consider me more or less of a keto failure because of my attitude but I consider my journey a success. I’m happy. I’m healthy. I’m active. And my weight doesn’t define me anymore. I’ve been pretty stable weight wise and don’t fluctuate a lot more than what I’ve already said. Yeah, the highs are a little higher than I’d like but I don’t torture myself to avoid them knowing that given time and my normal routine, the weight will be back down again anyway. It’s a sort of “go with the flow” thing, low stress.
Anyway, whatever your journey, I wish you all the best! 