I avoid my brother like the plague, too because he only calls me when he wants something from me.
He never married, has mostly worked his whole life but always looking for a woman to mooch off of. I gave him my half of Momâs house when she died so he would have a roof over his head. It was almost paid for and he refinanced it so he could pay off all his credit card debt. I signed Momâs car over to him so he had no car payment. Mortgage ran him $400/month. I told him I was done, I wasnât Mom and donât ever ask me for money. I wouldnât let him starve.
He lost the house and the car, tried to mooch from me and I refused so he went looking for another female mark. He has found them over the years but never lasts.
I wonât support his booze and cigarette habit so never give him money. He isnât homeless and hasnât starved yet. In fact, with his SAD diet he could live off his body fat for quite some time!!!
Call me callous. I own it.