As I started perusing this message board several months ago, I have noticed some topics come up frequently. Many posters talk about self-sabotage, stress eating that throws them off, worry about this becoming just another failed attempt, etc. Over the past few years I have learned that the mind is very, very powerful. What we tell ourselves about things makes a huge difference in how our bodies respond and function (there is science that backs this up). It’s never too late to change the way we talk to ourselves – I know this because I was over 40 when I went from being a pessimist to an optimist and overcame life long cynicism. And having been on both sides of it, life is much better when you start seeing the glass half full.
For me to have lost 100 pounds, it took a paradigm shift. It took a lot of self study to get there and I would like to share the books I read that helped me get there in case any of you are struggling. I am sure there are many others of you who have gone through the same transformation and found certain evidence based self help books as part of the process. Please share them here!
The best book I read was “The Upside of Stress” by Kelly McGonigal https://www.amazon.com/Upside-Stress-Why-Good-You/dp/1101982934
Followed by “The Power of Habit” by Charles Duhrigg https://www.amazon.com/Power-Habit-What-Life-Business/dp/081298160X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1547127784&sr=1-1&keywords=The+power+of+habit
“Mindset” by Carol Dweck also was super helpful https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1547127812&sr=1-1&keywords=mindset+carol+dweck
And I learned about most of these books when I started reading Eric Barker’s Blog 'barking up the wrong tree" He also now has a book that I thoroughly enjoyed, called “Barking Up The Wrong Tree” He’s an engaging and humorous writer. https://www.amazon.com/Barking-Wrong-Tree-Surprising-Everything/dp/0062416049/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1547127927&sr=1-1&keywords=barking+up+the+wrong+tree+by+eric+barker