Yeah the calories thing is a weird one to get your mind around. I was eating about 1400 calories the first 6 months (I’m 5’8”) just because I wasn’t hungry enough to eat more & my body could easily access the energy it needed from fat on my body. I lost 40 of the 60 or 70 pounds I’m aiming to lose.
Then my hunger increased I guess because my insulin is too high for my body to access the rest of my body fat, and I started eating up to 1800 calories a day, same macros. My weight did NOT go up. It did not go down either but my body composition changed and my clothes fit differently (better). I’ve been bouncing around the same weight since Nov 1st.
Now I’m using extended fasting and TIME to try pushing my basal insulin levels lower.
Obesity is not a calories issue, per se, it’s a hormonal imbalance. The fewer calories you take in, the more efficient your body gets. It’s a game you cannot win.
Focus most of your energy on keeping your insulin levels down by eating those low carbs & eating less frequently & let your body heal up.