There’s nothing new about this question, but I just need to get it off my chest. I feel I am on a merry-go-round of carb addiction and I cannot seem to get off. I have bursts of effort at keto, which last a week or so and make me feel really good. My longest streak was around 2.5 months and my carb cravings had basically disappeared. I was totally indifferent to junk food, it was like a miracle. That was maybe a year ago now. My current eating pattern is to eat moderately low carb for about the first half of the week, then I usually have a carb blowout on Thurs or Friday night, which is followed by several days of toast for breakfast, pasta for lunch, take away (pizza or Thai) for dinner and big helpings of cookies, chocolate and ice cream.
I am lucky enough to be pretty much in the middle of a normal weight range on the BMI chart (5’5” and 135 lb). I’ve been fluctuating by about 5 pounds up and down for 6 months or so. I lost 10pounds before that but in my life I’ve never been more than about 25pounds overweight. So I know I am fortunate in the genetic lotto. This is despite having a raging sugar and carb addiction basically my whole life (I am 37yo). My ongoing struggle with dependence on sugar and carbs feels in some ways like a defining feature of my internal life. It feels quite sad to admit that, but it’s true.
I also suffer from anxiety and have noticed this improves significantly on keto; possibly at a neuro-chemical level, but most immediately just from the feelings of self-esteem and motivation that come from not losing myself in food every night.
I know it is possible to finally break an addiction. I tried almost weekly to stop drinking for 15 years and I am now 2.5 years sober and don’t miss it one bit. But in retrospect drinking now feels an easier problem to crack - you can change your friends, change your habits, there are pharmaceutical aids, abstinence is very black and white. But food is everywhere, you cannot opt out! (I have a history of disordered eating and so wouldn’t try fasting, unless it came somewhat naturally, as it does after a while on keto). Every day, I am faced with this question of what to eat. This question is always there. The least thoughtful, easiest, most automatic answer is always carbs. It always has been. Part of me suspects I am at heart simply quite a lazy person, because often a large part of my resistance to eating well is purely just the effort involved. Physical, manual effort, but also mental effort. There are 30+ years of very well-trodden neurological pathways (highways even!) in my brain that lead me straight back into the food habits of a lifetime.
I thought that quarantine would be a great time to try and set myself up with good habits. I am blessed with a job I can do from home, plenty of space and time to cook, and accessibility to an abundance of good foods nearby. (I am in a town which is, fortunately, becoming less impacted by COVID by the day) It has, literally, never be easier for me to eat well. The conditions are all optimal! But somehow, I am still on this damn merry-go-round.
Has anyone else been in this place, and is there any advice you can give me for bringing it to an end and finally committing? Would something like Food Addicts Anonymous work for me? Their program seems somewhat compatible with keto? I feel dangerously close to giving up entirely, and slipping back into that old binge/purge cycle I know so well. Thank you for listening. All my questions are beginning to sound much the same. I am grateful for having a place to voice them.