Hi everyone from this community. I read, follow and cross information from different threads, thanks all for your posts !
For about nine months I was pretty good into Low Carb, then keto and even fasting. Keto was new for my surroundings : work and family (I don’t live in the U.S. A lot of skepticism : my partner is a farmer’s market salesperson, and can eat three mangos a day ! My mother, when she saw that I was not going into her “sugar trip” made my holidays impossible. My mother in law, was reciting full pages of Dr Grundig and running an eating competition. Other more vicious friends kept bringing chocolates and crap to the house… My only silent supporter, my general doctor, left her practice for a full year after an accident. On top of that, I had a very difficult time at my job… and I just quitted keto:rage:… I was also fed up with the amount of isolation and diet talk I had to endure…
But then I saw a couple of my siblings at hardly 70 : cancer, diabetes, breathing helps, overweight, million of medications. I got scared ! I can be therein just around the corner !!!
At 55, I have done probably every existing diet, with or without doctors, I am a professional yoyo dieter. I am active, biking to work every day, but I have 20 pounds to lose that seem to be my emotional cushion that make go from the high rate of a normal BMI to the edge of obesity.
I want to get rid of those kilos once and for all, it is pitiful to have a three sizes closet… among other things.
What I am learning
When I am in the low part of the scale, I feel well, I dress decently, I rock. But I am isolated by food restriction, and tend to accept that a little cheat is fair… BUT LITTLE CHEATS ARE JUST A DOWN PATH FOR ME !, dah obvious.
Doing Keto has proven the most pleasant way to eat with restriction : I love avocados, butter, coconut, cheese, eggs, even spirulina, hemp and others… I am less of a meat lover, but can do ok with fish and chicken. I adore every vegetable on earth and many fruits. that is what I really miss !
I am a gourmand. With keto, I certainly loose weight, not in a miracle speed, but I realised that I am very much not into eating pre-written menus, which is the fastest way to avoid agonising counting in apps… specially when busy.
Gaining trust or indifference from opposition is hard and ends up weighing highly in bad moments. And one day the cup fills and DOWN WE GO INTO THE CARB HELL, even if keto has been my best fight… here I am back into my bigger me.
GOOD NEWS, I AM BACK INTO KETO but i realised that I NEED TO DEPLOY EVERY WEAPON TO STAY IN THE LOW PART OF MY YOYO.
I won’t post a poster of a top model on my fridge, but rather of my loving siblings whom are so unhealthy by their way of eating…
I will have to come back to meditation, yoga or other calming durable method of stabilising my emotions.
I am fasting more often… I won’t deny the difficulty of the first two days, but honestly, I love the feeling of not setting foot into the kitchen, not dealing with other people endless conversations about diet and food that come so often during meals…
Having a reliable bread recipe is important for those moments … hey no microwave for me
Any other tips ?
Thanks you all !!!