THIS. ALL. DAY. I’m finding it really hard to effectively communicate this to neo’s and other curious parties. If you only have 20-or-so pounds you want to drop, keto is not likely the way to get it off quickly (some may argue at all). Those of us who are/were obese or even morbidly so will invariably drop quite a bit of excess weight rather rapidly when depleting glycogen/water stores (folks tend to forget that water weighs quite a bit. Remember: “a pint’s a pound the world around”) Purging all that water -via- reduction in glycogen stores is the vast majority of the initial weight-loss; some also comes from the reduction of systemic inflammation that ketosis/>20carbs facilitates. But honestly, once all that fluid is out of you, what you’re left with is all the same fat cells you started with, but at their most depleted and empty state. This is why our remaining adipose–particularly abdominal–starts to feel “squishy”. It’s not dissimilar from a balloon: full of water, it feels pretty firm; deflated, it’s very squishy. Same balloon, same amount of cellular material. Two different states, so two different behaviours.
And yes, men and women experience weight-loss very differently, no matter what style of weight-loss they’re attempting. This is just biology/physiology, and I get really cranky when some “keto sage” tries to sell it as “one size fits all”. That sets up really unrealistic expectations, and pretty much aims the new keto practitioner straight to frustration and disappointment.