i have been self motivating for a long time.
hardest thing as you get older. Staying motivated… to eat right… to work out etc. etc. i lost it for a while and really packed on the weight for a few different reasons (pelvic shift, newborns, old, tired etc). Saw a picture of myself at 220 pounds (which there are very few of) and just made the decision… thats it, enough is enough…its all coming off. Stumbled into keto after going mostly meat and veggies for a few weeks. baffled by the rapid fat loss… ticked off at the stalls and walls. its pretty common.
best advice i got was not even really keto related really. Just general thinking. Bodybuilder told me whatever you do change it up when your not getting results and pay attention to what you best respond to. i will say that those muscle gym rats were the only guys congratulating me and telling me to keep it up. everyone else was throwing out little snarky comments… you look sick, my wife said i looked gross, aids, too skinny blah blah blah. people will get jealous and try to put things in your head to bring you down. Dont argue just ignore it and stick to the plan. I was at a friends house and he was pretty furious i would not take a bite of his homemade mac and cheese when i was 24 hrs into a 72 hour fast. I just told him it looks and smells great but I just cant eat it.
I used to joke with people and tell them i was on a meth diet LOL. when you have not seen someone in 4 months and you drop 50 lbs they are shocked.
I love it though, the whole process. as hard as it is you actually get serious results. its pretty much a spiritual journey. You learn a great deal about yourself.