So this is kind of a weird one for me. My basic story is that, for the most part, I have always been heavy and eventually extremely obese. Peaked at 387 (6’0") but in March I was at 356 and started losing. So to me, all I ever knew was that my body fat % was WAY over normal… WHATEVER it was. I mean, when I first saw a nutritionist 3 years ago my BMI was 50 so it wasn’t a stretch.
In June 2018 I got my first DEXAscan.and I was at 34.6% body fat which definitely was WAY too much. Two scans and 7 months later I was down to 23.1% as of January 2019. I have a good amount of loose skin, sagging more than anything, but there is still good fat under it so I know I am not done yet.
So to the other person this relates too. Our HR Manager is about 5’4"-5’6" and if I had to guess, I would have put her at probably around 150 pounds or so, maybe less, you know most of us guys are terrible at that kinda thing. She is a life coach, started yoga about a year ago and is now also a certified yoga instructor. I always think of her as pretty fit but not crazily so like another co-worker who runs across the Sahara and swims the English Channel. When I look at her I see a “normal” body that is active.
She was excited about the DEXA Scans from me and loved the information it showed. This past week she was going to get her first one and we guessed what her body fat would be. I thought of myself, my journey so far, what I think of when comparing my mental image of me and the 23.1% I am at and where I think it should be and I guessed she would come in around 17%. She didn’t really have a guess.
So she got her scan done and loved the info but was shocked that she came in at 30.1% body fat. So was I. Now for her age and sex that puts her at the top of the 20th-40th percentile for women so she isn’t way out of the ballpark soft but that number was a shock to both of us. For my age and sex I am in the middle of that same percentile range.
What makes this an NSV for me? We all have that image in our heads of what we are. Those of us who come from being very obese (I was Class 3 at 387) for so long NEVER really think we are anything but fatter than everyone else, no matter what we do. For me to find out that I am 7% less body fat than someone I considered to be WAY thinner and in MUCH better shape than I am (by comparison) reminds me I am getting somewhere and re-enforces how far I have come in less than a year. And that maybe I need to work on changing that image I have in my head of who “this guy” is these days.
Realistically, with the difference in women and men my 23 is about equivalent to her 30 and she is pretty comfortable with it and can’t see losing much more than maybe 5% or so and I think that is completely reasonable. It just really came as a shock to me when she told me the number though.