I’m 55, was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes 29 AUG 2017. I knew of keto, but didn’t think it would be healthy for me at first. I tried to do what the VA hospital suggested, and could rarely keep my BG as low as the upper 180’s, let alone in a normal range. Even had my metformin increased from 500 mg to 1000 mg with no effect.
Six weeks later I decided to get into ketosis. All the info I could find was positive for diabetics. After all, it’s a disease with carbohydrates being the strongest contributor to the condition.
I decided I’m all in. I went zero carb. As far as I was able to measure anyway. Abstained from anythingvlisting => 1 gr. And anything listing < 1 gr as being 2 gr. Keeping it on the side of error.
Less than 24 hours later my BG was down to the normal range, between 80 and 100 all day. Jumping only slightly to 120ish after a meal. Jumping drastically if I ate anything with more than 5 gr of carbs. Like a drumstick of extra crispy KFC. My BG jumped to 150ish and stayed there until I got on my stationary bike and rode for 30 minutes. Back to normal. So I try to stay at zero carbs. That was all over one year ago.
So now, I abstain from carbs still. But I don’t sweat the small ones in minor amounts of veggies like a hamburger or sandwich, I just use the bread like an oven mitten or a banana peel, and keep rolling it back as I it.
Initially, I did stop taking my metformin. For several months I didn’t take it and was doing just fine. My PC doc was shocked and strongly suggested I continue taking it despite having the best control of BG he had ever seen. He then decided to put me on a statin as well, because my cholesterol was in the high range of normal, almost borderline high. I told him I won’t take it, but I would consider keeping a critical eye on it. (It continued to improve, without the statins). Same with my endocrinologist. She was beside herself, but at the end of the consult said, “well it’s working, keep it up”.
I would suggest cutting your carbs by 50% of where you are now. If you still have the same issue after a week, cut another 50% from there. Those two cuts would put you at 25% of where you are now. Continue to cut by 50% of each check point until you get a positive reaction. Then increase your carbs by 25% of the current check point. If that increase was ok, increase again by 25%. If that puts you over, cut that back by 50% of the increase. This is called a binary search. I think it’s the easiest and quickest way to find a point at which you can safely find your maximum carb intake. Yeah, it’s a bit of work, but worth it if you want to hit the balance of carbs in vs BG in control. For me, I just decided to go zero carb, and take it from there. It worked so well I just stayed. 
Good luck sir!
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