Screaming on the inside!


(Charlotte) #1

I’m on the baby center forums specifically the birth month forum my twins are. One person posted a thread asking how much and what kind of milk we give our toddlers. I about had an aneurysm when one mom commented this:

“ My Pedi told me to do 2% milk because she says “we as a culture eat enough fat”. I generally do 2% but sometimes whole milk. LO (little one) drinks about 18 ounces per day plus cheese and or yogurt.”

I instantly went into keto mode and wrote rant about her kids pediatrician is out of date (except not so diplomatically) and explained why the doctor was wrong. I said that its the carbs, sugar, processed foods, and the ton of added sugar in milk thats the problem, not the fat. I told her what i have learned about the topic and told her how I lost 30lbs on a high healthy fat diet. I ended my comment telling her to research both sides and come to her own informed conclusion on the matter and that while doctors may have a degree, it doesn’t make them infallible.

Will this ever end? Will there ever come a time when I won’t want to slap people senselessly (ie: the doctor) for saying dumb shtuff? Yes I said shtuff instead of what I really want to say. Ugh! The frustration I have with people about fat have no bounds. Please tell me a time will come when I will be able to bite my tongue and be unaffected by the beliefs of people who don’t bother expanding their knowledge base.


#2

its an ongoing struggle. i find just commenting with links to science and leading life by example have worked best for me


(Justin S) #3

Fighting the urge to be a keto zealot is one of my own biggest struggles. Thing is, our science makes no sense to most people. Tell someone you drink salt water to stay hydrated and they will guffaw and walk away. Tell someone you ate a 1lb ribeye and still lost weight the next day. They don’t understand.

Keto is a tough sell, and even tougher to stick with in practice, but the benefits are incredible. Just be there for them when they see how well you’re doing. I stopped the zealotry mostly, and now use keto to make friends, not to destroy my enemies.

But in the vein of milk, mention that when NFL linemen need to gain weight quick, they often are told by their docs to drink loads of skim milk. Packs on the pounds fast. And babies probably shouldn’t be doing keto anyways, they need those pounds!! Haha :wink:


#4

People’s fatphobia - both meaning their fear of dietary fat and their hatred of fat people - can and has put babies/toddlers in danger.


(Charlotte) #5

I give my toddlers’ keto meals 2 out of 3 meals a day and switched them to almond milk which they actually do better on and like way better. The only meal I give my toddlers thats non-keto is lunch and an afternoon snack. I have noticed a big difference in them. They seem happier, less cranky, more playful, and they do sleep better and thats just part-time keto. They love keto food way more than non-keto too. My son has been spitting out the non-keto food. lol Unless its mac & cheese…


(Carl Keller) #6

Not in our lifetime. Powerful forces continue to perpetuate the lies about saturated fat. It’s so ingrained into our culture that I hear the lies echoed all the time. I just roll my eyes and keto on.


(Janelle) #7

I say preach! I don’t have kids but my cousin literally gave her babies Coca Cola in their baby bottles. They are two beautiful, FAT teenagers now. Can’t imagine the internal damage and future health problems they’re going to have. If you think it was just my cousin years ago, Google it. It seems to happen all the time.


#8

omg
this is horrifying


#9

OMG… I’m getting anxiety just reading about this mom. This is why I left baby forums years ago… well, that, and my kids are teenagers now… lol… but yeah I just can’t handle that nonsense. I can hardly handle FB anymore for the same reason. So tempting to want to set EVERYONE straight on everything they have wrong in life. hahaha.


(Marius the butter craving dude) #11

This thing just makes me rant in my head.
My mother got diabetes when I was a baby. She kept me sugar and sweets low diet but not keto. I was slim with a bit of a tummy. But I hated the fact that my cousin’s mother gave him so much chocolate and I got none, that I could not drink coke and he drank as much as he wanted. Looking back at the pictures when I was a child I was the tall and slim and he was the fat one. I was angry at my mom for imposing on me her diet for her condition. And thus in my teens I went independent in food choices. I started eating sweets and drink cola without her knowledge.


(Frank) #12

Agree with everything you said except for the harder to stick to in practice comment. 14 months in for me and if anything it’s gotten significantly easier.


(Justin S) #13

I have also found that to be the case, mostly I meant at the start if you aren’t aware of the wide variety of foods you can still eat. I’ve had friends and co-workers “go keto” by just eating nothing but eggs and cheese. They don’t last long.

I’m a few days past 3 months, and the only thing I still struggle with is electrolyte balancing consistently. Thanks for pointing that out though, I see that my comment could be easily misunderstood. :slight_smile:


(Charlotte) #14

I woke up to a new comment about this on that thread from a different person and I had to screenshot it for you guys. I had to take a very deep breath after this one. Close minded people no matter the topic is the biggest pet peeve of mine. I ended my response with saying “We’ve been preached to all of our lives on how fat is bad, but thats not true. In time recommendations will change its just a very slow process. People are just more content with complacency because its whats comfortable instead of learning new ways of doing things and that’s fine. That’s their prerogative. I do me because its what has proven to work for me.”
I am passive aggressive what can is say.


#15

Wow! Beam me up Scotty!


(Charlotte) #16

Oh it gets better… this chick be CRAZY! I have to walk away at this point cuz you can’t reason with the unreasonable. I ended it with saying “Being close minded doesn’t help you get the facts straight. Good luck to you.” And I’m done… wow… just wow. I gotta move on from that one now.


(Empress of the Unexpected) #17

I’d have to step away as well. Wonder if this person even knows that babies under two years should only drink whole milk, as they need the fat for brain development.


(Jennibc) #18

Are you from the South?


(You've tried everything else; why not try bacon?) #19

I suppose breast-feeding is no longer considered healthy for babies, because human milk has too much fat?
#EVOLUTIONFAIL


(Janelle) #20

Nope - Colorado. Southern Colorado, which is almost as backward.


(Justin S) #21

Just send her a link to FACTS about the omega-6 to omega-3 ratios recommended by pretty much all doctors. Then link anything about the industrial production of canola. The unnatural process of using industrial solvents to pull out oil from plants in a way that just sounds terrifying.

Canola… Of all things… Even olive oil wouldn’t have been so bad. But hey, her whole family drinks milk, so I guess she must be correct, eh? :laughing: