agreed which is why they are testing their mental capacity before surgery options.
again so many at this weight have mental issues not any of us can ever understand.
I see the ‘truth’ in it.
Even that one Dr Now guy said that if they can’t change eating and want this and lose alot of lbs cause they are so heavy and show that they even attempted to change their eating??? he knows it is more psycho issues happening vs. one just is ‘overweight a bit’ and wants to live life well not giving up yummy foods and more.
I think there is that line. Mental vs. physical. As well as we ALL know sugar and body are wanting and drawing and malnourished eating this way,. simple change of ‘eating right’ doesn’t cut it for some people in that to this extreme, there is some mental baggage that trumps it all ya know. Way outta my league when it boils down to it all when we see issues like this on people I guess.
with people like this…morbid over like 400 to 600 lbs over is extreme. we know there are mental blocks and issues here but for someone 5-60 lbs over it is who we are in this day and age on this planet and yummy food YET MANY OF us can to realization, where the others in that big morbid category can’t.
so if they can’t hit what he says to change weight loss, they go pretty quick into counseling and that counseling I truly think has helped many make it, but darn, dieting and food is just that and many fall back cause I don’t think surgery is a ‘real life well being’ life changer cause even the Drs say ‘it is just a tool’ --------------hey I thought to get a lap band but in my brain, hell no cause I wanted to eat for health and lose lbs and ‘be normal’ somehow thru this from a natural food point of view.
plus I hate drs at all costs HAHA
most do undo the surgery. I think it is a massive mental game of roullette that is just horrifying. I kinda been on that game also til I wiggled my azz out of it ya know in a small way to suit me. I think many can’t ‘find that way out’
truly saddening but it is our walks and our paths and our journey so?
just regular ol’ chat on it ya know…just spewing how I see some of it and how it has to be torture for many above what I went thru to change in a way. Something I don’t get yet I know it has to be out there. That mental issue that will trump all of our wants for change.