Not sure what to do next

#21

Yeah you are probably right. For the most part he and I just do our own thing already. I do all the cooking and ask him what he wants, I make what he wants and I don’t harass him. He’s free to quit, I have a kid I deal with everyday I don’t have time to fight with him.

He’s just doing what he always does. He’s easily discouraged when things are not going right and he’s.100% a minimal effort kinda guy. :joy:

What will most likely happen is he will whine and bitch and cry and watch his weight shoot up faster and then freak out and embrace keto and exercise

(Joey) #22

It’s your comment above that’s of concern.

Sounds like you’re living with two children, not one.

If he’s supporting you, then it’s likely worth putting up with some of this.

Just how much? … that’s the question only you can answer. Good luck.

#23

Right, yeah I told him he was stressing me out. He got the message yesterday, he got me flowers and said he was sorry, that he appreciates me etc. And didn’t bug me at all about stuff yesterday and so far today. I’ll only let him stress me to a point before I just stop doing anything for him :joy:

#24

Well, I think I figured it out… Lol

He’s been eating over 650 calories of pepperoni plus idk how much cheese, as a snack throughout the day.

I called him over to my food scale and showed him and he just let out a big sigh, “dang it…” :rofl: