Need help to accept the cake but not actually eat it

(Sky) #22

hmmmmm pockets - thats a thought wear something with pockets - wish we had as many pockets on our clothing as men do

(Sky) #23

you are a super star - lol and a gal after my own heart - its they way I think too - some say I over think - I say I consider all case scenarios :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::crazy_face::stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
Its not that I cant say no, quite the opposite - I just cant sugar coat anything and people are so easily offended these days and some hold grudges for months and in a workplace you really dont need stupid misunderstandings to create issues we care for people with high needs complex disabilities and these guys can sus out your mood in an eye blink - and I dont want them feeling ill at ease because of some tension from an other collegue towards me - if you know what I mean

(Sky) #24

awesome ideas here thanks hun

(Sky) #25

cheers hun I would definately pick you for my cheering squad - I hear what you are saying but I am trying not to be so dogmatic about what I eat - I can say NO THE trouble is I think my facial expression comes across a tad hard - I some times inadvertantly hurt peoples feelings and I really dont want to do that because they are coming from a good place - I’m just an old chick trying to learn new tricks lol

(Sky) #26

if I eat a bit I will crave carb - bit like saying to an alcholic just have a sip - wish I coud though and your advice is sound - just my stupid carb/sugar addiction

(Sky) #27

I guess on the greater scale of things when there are a lot of people no one will notice I didnt eat the cake - cheers hun you have helped me put the scenario in the right perspective - true - no one will notice if I dont make a big deal out of it

(Wandering) #28

I hide being on keto.

I mean anyone who knows anything would know I was on keto, because they see me go to Qdoba and just get chicken and steak with cheese … and literally nothing else on it lol, but I don’t think most people know and it’s rare anyone ever mentions it.

I hide being on keto because I don’t want to explain myself. I don’t want people asking “how’s that keto going ?”. I don’t want people arguing about health consequences or lack of vitamins or whatever. I don’t want people telling me what they heard from so-and-so in such-and-such about keto. I basically just don’t think its anybodies damn business.