Good discussion.
The ones I find most difficult to cope with aren’t the ones who compliment.
It is the ones who have just discovered a new way of eating/exercising themselves. So full of it. So preachy. So irritatingly boring.
And yes, when you have lost a bit of weight yourself, and they stampede all over you with their zealotry about insert New Best Thing of choice here.
I just avoid them in future. Bummer when they are family though, isn’t it?