Hello everyone, it’s been a while since I have posted here on the forums
I recently graduated from OSTM in Rochester NY and sat for my board exam for Massage Therapy.
I am excited to say that For most of my time at school (6 month accelerated course) I remained Keto Compliant and managed to keep my weight steady at about 145. I did however gain some weight after when I visited my boyfriend in LA (my downfall because even our compromise between our two diets has me gaining weight, It’s that bad)
I am back on the Keto Horse and I am dragging my mother along kicking and screaming. She promised she would give AT LEAST low carb a try, after about 2 weeks she was upset that it wasnt working and she still wasn’t losing weight. So I inquired about what she was eating and it didn’t sound right. She was cheating here and there and it sounded like she wasn’t eating enough.
All her food choices she mentioned all sounded like low fat, diet foods so I made her get the App, Lose It. An app I know my way around and I use to make sure I get my macros right and don’t eat too little.
Well after just 2 days of logging, she is eating about 1000 calories too little and was getting upset that she was eating so little and that she still wasn’t losing weight. I inquired more and realized this is how shes been living her life for years. I set up her app and gave it notification permissions and I am now officially cooking for her. She will eat what I eat and she will not get to skip out on eating breakfast… even though I don’t need to be up at 7am, i will be because she cant seem to get her shit together on her own.
I am confident that once she starts seeing results she will take over on her own and keep it going. I am happy to help her and fix the problems. she doesn’t believe me when i tell her how metabolism works and that if she eats too little she wont lose weight. But, she agreed to conform for at least 2 weeks. I don’t know if this is enough time for her to see or feel any difference given how many years she has been living like this, but it’s worth a shot.
If any of you have any simple recipes that are budget friendly i would really appreciate a link or message. My mothers father had diabetes his entire life and just about everyone on that side of the family has health and weight issues. I know this will eventually kill her if she doesn’t get her crap together, so I am doing what I can to show her she doesn’t have to buy Nutrisystem and starve herself and her bank account to make herself feel good for a few weeks and then inevitably give up anyways.
Anyways, my personal goal is about 120-125, i am currently about 147. At my heaviest I was close to 180. Depression and ptsd really wrecked me for a while, but I am getting a handle on myself again.
Here is a picture of what i looked like when i WAS 120 (i was 21 in this picture and had just had a baby)
This is a pic of me and my mom at the gym about 2 years ago (a little bit heavier than i am now)
My personal goal as i mentioned is to lose about 20 more pounds. my mom would like to get down to 150 (she didn’t tell me what her starting weight is but I’m going to take a shot in the dark and say 200-210)