No, I am not almost there. This is just the beginning of a journey that will last (I hope!) many decades.
In fact, my doctor had told me to start eating dairy and fruits in the previous visit. I did not do it, since I wanted to lose a few more kilos. Now, when I told her I had not eaten dairy or fruits, she was “angry”.
I am not a keto supporter per se. I just like the keto spirit. I know for sure I will not eat wheat for the rest of my life. Life has taught me enough lessons about that.
But I am not so sure about fruits or legumes. First, I have never had the same reaction with fruits or legumes (in comparison to wheat). Second, in my culture (European Mediterranean) fruits have always been present. I know that for centuries, my ancestors were eating figs and oranges, and other fruits. Maybe now they have a bit more sugar than before. But they continue being figs and oranges!
Also, they were eating legumes.
Of course, they also ate bread. But it was for sure whole wheat bread. And they were doing a lot of physical exercise. And wheat is not good for me!
I want to do some kind of “elimination” process. I want to see if I can accept some degree of fruits and legumes.
The recommendation to try mostly berries is a good one. I like them, and they have a lot of fiber and litter sugars. I want to eat pomegranates, apples or bananas when it is the season.
When our genes were defined (before the Neolithic, mostly), I am pretty sure people were sometimes “keto”, and sometimes “out of keto”. I do not know the proportion of time. But I am pretty sure that “alternating” keto and non-keto cannot be too bad. I would say that forcing oneself always to the same (either keto, SAD or anything else) cannot be too good, in any circumstance.
Also, portion size clearly matters. This is something I am learning about quite clearly.
Also, there are personal relationships. My mother made some Christmas sweets. My wife is doing the same for New Year’s Eve. Birthday cake is important for my son and my wife. I want to be part of all that. Of course, I do not want that this is the excuse to my drug-addict-for-wheat-and-sugar brain to start eating sugars on a recurring basis. I want to be aware of all that. And maybe do some kind of “purifying” fasting after that.
Today I have gained 700g after yesterday, which had a Christmas dinner. In fact, I was very conservative (I ate like 10g of my mom’s cake). And the food was a seafood soup and some shrimps, so everything “keto”. So, I see the reaction in my body to sugars is quite strong.
Today there is a Christmas lunch. I want to participate in it. I will take the consequences of it.
I am thinking in doing some fasting between tomorrow evening and New Year’s Eve. It would be the first fasting since I started keto. I have the minerals and the vitamins. And I think I have the right mind and attitude.
Finally, a phrase I love is “perfection is the enemy of the good job”.