There really isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach to keto. Don’t worry about what you “should” be doing (beyond the basics of keeping net carbs under 20g/day, not overdoing it on the protein and getting the majority of your calories from fat), but instead pay attention to what will be sustainable for you long-term, how you feel, how much energy you have, how your current keto practice is/isn’t supporting any specific goals you may have (such as weight loss), etc.
Personally, I don’t track macros for a few reasons–I know from experience that tracking food triggers some very mentally unhealthy and obsessive tendencies in me, and that I will eventually rebel against its strictness, because yes, tracking does make keto feel like a “diet” to me, whereas intuitive keto eating just feels like a chosen lifestyle (and a delicious one at that) . I did track for a short period of time toward the beginning of eating keto, which was helpful for giving me an overall sense of what day-to-day keto eating would look like for me, but after a few weeks I stopped tracking and have been doing well just tracking carbs in my head, making reasonably educated choices about everything else, and being mindful to avoid overeating or indulging in emotional eating. If I were tracking and super focused on the numbers, I might be losing weight faster, but I’ve been steadily losing at least a half a pound a week (and often more) doing things my way, and that works for me–I’m not terribly concerned with the pace of my weight loss as long as things are continually moving in the right direction.
And as far as the concern about being “lazy” goes, something I heard on a keto podcast that I really liked (I think it was a guest on the Keto for Normies podcast?) was that there is no such thing as lazy keto, because doing keto at all in any form is inherently not lazy–it takes discipline to follow the diet in even its most basic form. The person being interviewed said she preferred calling it “intuitive keto”, and I concur.
So, yeah. If you feel good and it’s working for you, just keep doing what you’re doing. Reading other folks’ strategies and successes can be interesting and helpful, but that doesn’t mean what works for them is the same as what will work for you.