Got my 83 year old mom to go Keto!

elderly

(Liz ) #1

So my mom is one who tried Atkins in the 70s, I still remember the terrible day in my childhood when all the ice cream disappeared from the house lol. She understood carbs were problematic, and that sugar was addictive. And yet she didn’t stick with Atkins. I haven’t asked her why, probably because she’s a carb addict and she fell off the wagon. My whole life she was unhappy with her weight for aesthetic reasons and was always trying diets. Don’t get her started on her opinion of Weight Watchers lol! She is not a fan.

I went on Atkins in 2003 and she sort of followed me and cut her carbs down again. Realized she really couldn’t be halfway with it and she has done really well. She’s not obese, but now she’s 83 and has a number of health concerns that until I went on Keto and started explaining all the science to her, she didn’t think there was any hope of getting relief from.

She quit fruits and root veg, pretty much her last carbs. But the thing that really clicked with her was the meal timing. She eats three times a day, (I plugged her typical day into My Fitness Pal and her macros were lovely, and she’s getting enough to eat, which was one of my worries) but she stopped snacking. She had been grazing on low carb things like nuts and cheese whenever she was bored or felt anxious, using food for solace like we do.

When she understood eating constantly was keeping her insulin high even though she was eating low carb, she decided to try replacing the snacking times with other coping mechanisms; freewriting, breathing exercises, sketching, listening to music, knitting, writing letters.

So now, maybe a month in, she already has experienced so far: dramatic reduced edema in her legs and feet, a small return of feeling to her previously numb feet, improved sleep, moments of improved mood (she suffers lifelong anxiety and depression), more stamina.

This is so exciting! I’m so hopeful that as she continues she will benefit from less overall body aches, perhaps improvement in skin cancers, more lifting of her depression and anxiety, more reversal of neuropathy. She thinks she might be too old to get all the possible benefits, but I bet she isn’t.

And we talk all the time about how it’s possible we are saving her from a bunch of health disasters as she continues to age. My dad is 87 with congestive heart failure and I know Keto would improve his life but he won’t try it. I can see now how carbs got him to this point, he’s addicted to fruit juice. It breaks my heart. But if I can still help mom keep going that is the best I can do. I’m responsible for their care so it’s in my best interest to help them stay healthy, but also I love them and we get along (wasn’t always the case, mind you!!) so it’s in my heart’s best interest too.

So if you have a parent that’s gone keto, and/or one or both who won’t, I feel you on both these issues.

Anyone have elderly keto successes to share? I know there are some videos and podcasts, but I mean things you’ve witnessed yourselves.


(*Rusty* Instagram: @Rustyk61) #2

Congrats @LizinLowell. I can only imagine how this makes you feel. I wish I had known about this science before my DAD passed away back in the year 2000 after complications with T2D.


(Liz ) #3

Ugh heartbreaking!! I really feel for you. We can all see so clearly now the suffering Keto could prevent.

Thank you, I’ll update if she has any more improvements. Would be good, I think, to have a list for the older folks to refer to down the line.


#4

That’s great. My mom is 85. All these years when ever I would visit, it was “have some pie,” or “don’t you like my potatoes?” I told her, no mom, it’s the carbs. “Oh, you and your carbs!”

This year, her DOCTOR (!) put her on a moderately low-carb diet. When I went back for Thanksgiving, she said, “Oh, I shouldn’t have made fun of your diet.” It’s all good, of course, I made her some fantastic low-carb stuff on Thanksgiving.


(Liz ) #5

Oh ha! Man, parents. That’s amazing she was able to change her mind though. Now you guys are on the same page. i hope she sticks with it. And way to go, modern thinking doc!


(Ethan) #6

This is a great NSV!


(Liz ) #7

Ha! good point! :blush:


(*Rusty* Instagram: @Rustyk61) #8

:+1:t3:


(Sophie) #9

That’s huge! Congrats!!! :clap::clap::clap:


(Liz ) #10

Thank you! She is not as hopeful as I am that some of her more debilitating issues can be reversed, she’s worried she’s too old, but why not try it and see? I told her I would be the wild optimist about it and she can just keep drinking her fatty bone broth :grinning:


(Sophie) #11

I’ve always been a big believer in teaching old dawgs new tricks! :smile: :wink:


#12

I wish I could like this a million times. It is so hard for some older folks to change diet so kudos to your mom for trying it! I wish I had learned about keto in time to help my mom. So glad your mom is getting such significant benefits.


(Darlene Horsley) #13

What an awesome story. I’ll be looking forward to the updates! Your mom has a wonderful daughter!


(Liz ) #14

@Primal123 @Darlene_Horsley Thank you! It’s very exciting & I’m eager to share her progress. Today she said she noticed she doesn’t get low blood sugar feelings anymore (she does not check blood glucose). And she is experiencing feelings of satiety though her hunger signals are not very strong. That might mean she’s becoming fat adapted, though. She said she has lost weight, I hope it’s visceral. I don’t think she should be too thin but hopefully her body will settle at a reasonable weight.


(Darlene Horsley) #15

That’s awesome! Mom’s gonna rock this!


(Liz ) #16

Latest update! Mom went Keto January 20th 2018.

So far:
She has started getting some feeling back in her feet which have been numb for years “I could tickle my own foot!”

Her edema abated drastically, used to have it terrible in lower legs and feet.

Has some sense of smell returning! It had been spotty for awhile.

Lost some weight.

Senses of satiety and hunger starting to normalize.

Less agoraphobia though not totally abated yet.

She has had Lyme disease and candida in the past and I think she did go through a toxic die-off last week which was pretty hard on her and upped her anxiety, that herx reaction is the worst.

EDIT TO ADD: Sleeping for longer stretches, not up every two or three hours

That’s it for now! Excited to see what happens for her as she continues on this journey. My hopes? That her tinnitus improves, that she regains full feeling in feet, that the dormant spirochetes in her body from Lyme find a keto environment unwelcoming and all die away, that she get better balance/walking and fewer body aches/headaches. (She knows about salt and other electrolytes!)


(Keto in Katy) #17

Indeed!

And big respect to your mom for being open minded and trying something different. I think that can be hard for a lot of people. I wish you and your parents all the best.


(Liz ) #18

Thanks, kindly! I know how lucky I am she is willing to try this. She really respects the science.


(Liz ) #19

Mom’s gave me a list of things she needs me to pick up when I head over this week, it’s so Keto, I have to share :smile:

3 lbs hamburger
bratwurst
celery
green beans in the package, pre-trimmed 2 pkgs.
4 avocados
coconut oil
liverwurst
heavy cream


(Darlene Horsley) #20

I had quite the chuckle. I think you have a definite convert on your hands. Lol Good for her; she’s doing great from the looks of her list!