Does anyone need holiday "intervention?" Emotional, not KOE


(Cindy) #1

I know that the holidays can be a really difficult time for some people. And I’m not talking about whether you’re sticking to KOE or not, but the stresses that come from the expectation of being “merry” this time of year, visiting with family that might or might not be a healthy situation, etc. There’s a reason that suicides increase this time of the year.

We’ve had one friend and one co-worker commit suicide. It’s a very real issue, even when people are in treatment (such as my co-worker), sometimes it just becomes “too much.” But it does usually get BETTER with time…unfortunately, the ones in the midst of suicidal thoughts can’t see or believe that…so at that point, ANY delaying tactic can save their lives.

So if you’re struggling this year, for any reason, I thought it might be helpful to have a place to vent, get support, etc, on a board that’s already familiar to you, among a group of people who are caring and mostly drama-free. If that doesn’t help enough, please, please, please reach out to a suicide prevention hotline.

The one here in the US is

[National Suicide Prevention Lifeline]
Call 1-800-273-8255

Perhaps people in other countries could add the numbers for their hotlines?


(Eric - The patient needs to be patient!) #2

Cindy,

Thanks for this. Sometimes the little things matter. One of my daughters when she was in Middle School said hi to someone on the bus she had never talked to before and they struck up a conversation. The young women later (weeks later) confided in my daughter that she was going to go home and commit suicide that day. Just a simple act of a stranger saying hi changed her life forever.


(Ellen) #3

UK can call the Samaritans on 116123. If you’re feeling suicidal or depressed, please talk to someone, it can get better. @cw2001 good idea, this time of year is not great for many people.


(Laurie) #4

Thank you. I’m not suicidal, but I hate Christmas. Childhood Christmases were bad in certain ways, adult Christmases in others. Pressure to participate, be “merry,” and eat causes a lot of stress.


(KCKO, KCFO 🥥) #5

We just recently had a news segment on about this issue. This song seems to reach a lot of younger people who are suicidal, they mention it on the calls. It is literally saving lives.

Also my state has a whole website of resources listed here, if anyone is in Colorado it is a great thing to have:
http://suicidehotlines.com/colorado.html

My nephew is prone to suicidal thoughts and these have been helpful resources for him and us.


(Cindy) #6

Laurie, I think it’s pretty common to hate Christmas, but unfortunately, it’s not always easy to say it. People are like “You can’t hate Christmas!” Well, yes, I can.


(Cindy) #7

That’s a pretty intense video.


(Running from stupidity) #8

Australia - 13 11 14

https://www.lifeline.org.au/


(Brennan) #9

Canada 1-833-456-4566 or text 45645
In Quebec 1-866-277-3553
http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca

If you’re feeling down and out please contact someone. :hugs: hugs :hugs: