I agree with KetoCancerMom’s recommendations.
First - don’t assume that weight = fat. Sometimes, as we lose fat, our bodies react by retaining more water in the fat cells actually increasing weight. Have you experienced a flush yet? This is where you lose a lot of water in a day.
Second - some foods have hidden insulinogenic or inflammatory products. Diet soda can do this by triggering insulin, even without actual carbs. HWC in excess can also cause inflammation and slow things down.
Third - eat real natural foods. Avoid processed foods like Jell-O pudding and american cheese.
Fourth - don’t eat lean meats like turkey breast. Eat fatty meats instead. You need to have enough fat in your diet to get to satiety and lean meats make that harder. Eggs are good. If you eat chicken, eat the thighs with the skin to get more fat.
How are you eating 4 tablespoons of butter? On something? In something?